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MAN HAVE FEELINGS TO

19 Dec

I have been reading all these blogs about relationships, good and bad, and what to do about them. The things we man should do and shouldn’t do, although it takes two people to have a relationship. Two people that are truthful to each other.  I myself much rather know the truth then live with the hurt and pain that the lies cause. The longer you live that lie the harder it is to tell the truth later on, you are not the only one getting hurt. If you have children, they get hurt, family, friends, everybody gets hurt. People need to own their own responsibilities and faults and deal with them accordingly, not blame someone else. It always seem that when there is a bad relationship it is the man fault, but thats not always the case. Sometimes the woman is to blame, like I said it take two people to have a relationship. And when she is the one to blame she needs to pull up her panties and be woman enough to say I am Sorry.

Big Mouth Little Ears

14 Nov

We sometime as men open our big traps without thinking about the people who are in need of help but a help we can’t give. The help I’m talking about is just being there for them when they need us the most. Some one to lean on, some one to hold when needed, some one to just LISTEN. We seem to know how to mess things up, but never seem to know how to fix them.When you say you love some one and they ask for some space, LISTEN to them and give it to them, because if you don’t you could very well drive them away, further a part. This is not coming from my head it coming from my heart. I have done this very thing recently, and with a woman, I love very much, and I wish now that I had paid attention and LISTENED. Saying your sorry really doesn’t help, but being their friend, and being there for them does. Most of all shut your mouth and open your ears and LISTEN . The most help you can give anybody during these times is friendship, kindness, patience, and loving them for just who they are, not asking for any more.